Writing some slut/polya/nonmono/independent polya/radical nonmono/permasinglehood and more nonfic books as we speak. Whatever you are, it’s fabulous! Commitment doesn’t mean exclusivity, though many assume it does. And intimacies as a Black person perceived as a woman are a total different experience and it’s past time we had resources reflecting that.
Whatever you discover, continue to be your fabulous self!