If you can't get past feeling bad about being white, if you can't handle being called racist, if you just don't get why POC are just being oh-so-mean and "lumping all white people together" and other such nonsense, heed the following:

1. We're not even remotely focused on your lack of emotional intelligence. If you are feeling bad, it's because you benefit from white supremacy, WHETHER or not you actually are racist.

2. If you need to process your white guilt so you can actually be useful, sign up for Healing From Toxic Whiteness and fucking stop complaining so publicly about how disappointed you are: we have been living with this shit since before we were born. I'm sorry you're only just now realizing how racist everything is, but seriously, it's inappropriate and rude as shit to take up the discussion with your shit yet AGAIN! That link to the course, where it will appropriate to grieve and where you'll be able to learn HOW to do so:

3. We really do not need you to prove whether or not your racist. It honestly doesn't matter. What matters is that got support us right now, because our lives depend on it.

Integrated Non-Monogamy, Metanoiac Alethiology, aro love terms, cuil fiction, & more; Speaker; Sensitivity Editor Cuil Press.

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