Post 3: on #abuseculture and telling the difference
Thank goodness baby napping and eldest occupied. Breathing through the pain.
Loss of control is the decision moment: to regain control of yourself or to force an aspect of the world to be under your control.
Your only domain is yourself. To deign to control anyone or anything else is delusional and abusive.
That moment of weakness is everything: everyone feels out of control from time to time. But how do you deal with it?