Lola, don’t bother trying to explain to Martin. He doesn’t care. He won’t get it. He’s being an ass. Save your education for someone who actually gives a shit. Spend your energy on supporting people of color, especially Black folk. People like Martin are just noise. Let it fade into the background. They don’t need any more attention, effort, or education.

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