Jordan Belamire thank you for sharing your experience. As someone who — as an ultimate minority of marginalization — has experienced just about every kind of microaggression, violence, and assault imaginable (physically, virtually, emotionally), I am both aggrieved by your experience and feel so much compassion for you.

(Because fuck empathy! People keep using empathy when what matters, what inspires action, is compassion)

Fuck Adam, that shit has no fucking idea what he’s talking about.

I see you. I am a victim. I am a survivor. I believe you.

It fucking matters.

Abuse culture is insidious and shit like what Adam said is part of what keeps it intact.