I'm only going to say this: I have no use for white guilt or any other kind. There's literally no purpose or reason to because guilt is a shit poor motivation to actually change anything.
I'm dealing with way too much to be concerned with causing petty harm, especially to white folks. I literally don't even have the time, spoons, or capacity. That's what I was trying to communicate.
To be able to be warned is a privilege. That doesn't mean you suck or have to feel bad about it. It should be something available to everyone. We don't live in that world yet but myself and others are actively creating one that makes it true.
I'm absolutely sick of white folks making these issues personal. Deal with your pain.