I am both ace and aro, yet not exclusionary. But I’m also not going to pretend as if gender and race don’t affect how ace and aro people can move in the world.
Honestly, the simple fact that all of this organic human variation is only just now becoming known in white society in the first place is proof of how far behind they are in the conversation.
Healthy polyam relationships do not equal ethical, especially if they have no awareness of their context within colonized cultures.
I love how y’all always think you have something so relevant and unique to state.