Fucking called it from the first interactions I had with him and his work, and is why I continued to do better by giving accurate, inclusive, and antiabuse tools to folks.

It is why I have never and will never identify with power on any level: I have no social capital, don't care about whatever imaginary reputation I have, wil neeeeever call myself a leader, and will continue to shed light on the abusive personalities that occupy these treasured positions within #abusecultures.

You deserve better, and if folks can't even offer you basic human decency and demonstrate integrity, you can be assured everything they've "learned" has left a wake of broken and traumatized people behind them.

Question your so-called leaders, and stop getting your information secondhand!!

#IamthatGameChanger #polyamory #relationships #amatonormativity #BlackBooksMatter #intersectionalornah #INM