Ah, now I understand. My apologies, @Darren Stalder; what a grievous error. I did not understand that YOU created the term and I was incredibly rude, simply thinking that you were someone who’d created a unique definition for oneself. I know it’s so much later and may not mean much at all, but I hope you see these words and know that I messed up and am incredibly aggrieved about it.

I would invite you to discuss language, intent, and changes in usage in The Metanoiac Portal (I’d personally sponsor your membership) if you were still interested.

You don’t have to forgive me. I hope it did not wound you.

Integrated Non-Monogamy, Metanoiac Alethiology, aro love terms, cuil fiction, & more; Speaker; Sensitivity Editor Cuil Press. https://the-metanoiac-portal.mn.co

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