Abuse Culture Tips: Questions and Thoughts to Keep in Mind

*On abusers and repentance: If you want to “help” someone who’s transgressed, you only need to offer it once. Then move on. They know where to find you if they need to. Like, the problem is their overabundance of options, not lack thereof. Where’s the support and restoration for the people who actually need it? That’s what matters. Be wary of a continued focus on the perpetrator to the victim’s detriment.

*And we do need to consider context for who to trust and inform and maintain ties with: those who don’t know what was done…