A caveat about Lola, while they do write much that is wonderful and useful, it’s not intersectional in the least.
So please consider their writings as purely sharing the white experience.
Being non-binary, intersex, genderqueer, and neurogender myself, I’ve written about these without forgetting the crucial ways in which gender, expression, sexuality, and mental health see racialized.
I’m very grateful to you for your willingness to listen and learn. We all definitely need it right now, H. Nemesis Nyx . ❤