5 Reasons Cishet Poly Folks Probably Shouldn’t Claim to Be Queer, Even Though Y’all Really Want To

Yay polyamory! Non-Monogamy has been making the rounds lately as the “mainstream” (read straight, cis, and usually white) discover that love doesn’t have to be as limiting and lonely as we’ve been told. Hell, we’ve finally started discussing abuse culture, how to be more inclusive and less oppressive, and breaking down amatonormative assumptions (primarily around the idea that your partner belongs to you).

More and more people are learning about things like compersion, intimate friendships, and open and honest communication. And…